The
Flower Series
by Sue
September
- Yellow Lilies
Summer
drew to a close quickly after we returned from Italy - days grew
shorter, the evening air took on a slight chill, and the flowers
of autumn began to pop up everywhere with their brilliant oranges,
rusts, and yellows. Baby girl, suddenly faced with having to wear
socks after a long barefoot summer, protested loudly and removed
them at every opportunity. I'd put them back on her, explaining
why she needed to keep them on, but I'm afraid my daughter was
quite the headstrong little girl and continued to shed them just
as quickly as she was able.
Sonny
and I resumed our pre-Italy pattern of seeing each other and once
again, he refrained from pressuring me for more. It was tough.
For both of us I presume, but especially on me because only I
knew how deeply I felt. If only I knew why I still felt compelled
to keep him at semi-arms length. So many times I had been close
to pouring out my love for him; so many times I had rushed to
the door after he left, only to stop before opening it and shouting
for him to come back and make love to me. Issues. I had some and
I needed to solve them, so I called the man who had become my
good friend and business partner, and made an appointment to see
him professionally. I had to get to the bottom of things before
I made myself crazy or drove Sonny away. Friendship being what
it is, two hours later I was sitting in Cameron's office, pacing
actually, while he played with my daughter and let me talk.
"It's
not like I don't love him. I do. Completely. And I know he feels
the same way. That's why I just don't understand my reluctance
to take this to the next level."
"Alexis,"
Cameron chose his words carefully, "You're experiencing a
perfectly normal reaction. Eighteen months ago, you set Sonny
up to hurt you so you wouldn't have to face a real relationship.
Now you're afraid that you're going to do it again and he'll take
the bait again. Does that about cover it?"
I
started to protest but the words died in my throat. I was the
queen of relationship cop-outs from boarding school to the father
of my daughter. Every time I had a serious relationship, I was
the one who backed out, picked the breakup fight, hitched a semi,
threw him back to his ex-wife. It was me. I was the problem, well
maybe not the complete problem, but now things were different
and I didn't want to end up hitching a semi. "OK, assuming
you're right, and I'm not admitting anything, how does a saboteur
who doesn't even know she's sabotaging anything stop said sabotage
before the sabotagee gets disgusted and walks away?"
Cameron
laughed as he played flying baby with KD who was giggling herself
out of breath. "Good thing your mommy'th not Thylvethter
the cat, ithn't it KD? We'd both be thoaked after that pronounthement."
I
threw a paper wad at him. "I'm serious Cameron. What do I
do? How can I stop myself from ruining this?"
"Well,
first you could try admitting out loud that you're scared. Then
tell Sonny."
"He
knows."
"So
you told him already?"
"No,
he just knows."
"Alexis
it's not the same as coming from your mouth. You have to admit
it out loud to yourself and to Sonny. You have to tell him exactly
why you're afraid. More than half the battle in conquering our
fears is in just admitting them. Tell you what. Zander and I will
watch Little Boo here tonight and you and Sonny go to dinner and
a movie or something. OK?"
So
that's how I ended up walking across the hall to my own office
and dialing the big bad mobster's cell phone and asking him out
on a date. A date. I hadn't been on a date since college. Lucky
for me he didn't play hard to get, so we arranged to meet at the
Grille at seven. I was going out on a date with the man I loved.
Suddenly choruses of "tonight" from West Side Story
filled my brain and I did a quick twirl around the floor. Giddy
was nice. I certainly hoped I could keep it.
That
evening at 6:30 Cameron and Zander knocked on my door armed with
library books and stuffed animals and shuffled me out for my date
with Sonny. Date with Sonny. I was still obsessing over the date
word, but Cameron had assured me this afternoon that since Sonny
and I had never had the conventional type of relationship, it
was important that we try to create one. A date was a start.
He
was waiting outside the grill when I pulled up and parked the
car, huge grin on his face as he rocked back and forth on his
heels. "You clean up pretty good for an ambulance chaser
Ms. Davis."
I
had to look down to see what I was wearing. Perplexed, I looked
at Sonny. "You've seen this dress before - a couple of times
actually. And I'm usually wearing a suit for work so what do you
mean I clean up pretty good?"
Sonny
grinned as he took my arm and guided me into the Grille. "It's
just that lately I've seen you with carrots in your hair, spit
up on your shoulder, and green beans down the front of your sweats.
I hardly recognize you when you're not wearing food."
I
swatted him lightly. "Some romantic date this is going to
be."
"Date?
This is a date? If you had told me this was a date I would have
bought you a corsage or something. I just thought we were meeting
for dinner. Wait a minute. You asked me. Does that mean you're
paying?"
The
man was insufferable but cute. "Yes I'm paying, and yes this
is a date."
He
whistled lowly as we waited on our table. "A date. Wow. We've
never dated. This could be all right." Sonny started nodding
his head. "Yeah. We should date for a while and do those
get to know you things. I like that idea."
For
me being nervous as all get out, the evening went perfectly and
without a hitch as Sonny and I talked about date stuff and crazy
as it may seem, got to know each other better. Both of us had
completely hidden childhoods - I had been given a glimpse of his
thanks to Mike, but still, to hear things from the perspective
of a little boy, well, to quote that well know commercial...priceless.
In turn I told Sonny more about my life with my mother than I
had ever told anyone before. It was an entirely comfortable evening
and ended all too soon, but I had court in the morning, Cameron
had an early patient, and Zander had a test. Reluctantly, I stood
next to my car in the parking lot as Sonny shoved his hands in
his pockets and sheepishly announced that he wanted to do this
again. He enjoyed just sitting and talking with me, he enjoyed
my company, and he enjoyed being with me, and wanted to go out
on another date. I felt 15 when he asked if he could kiss me good
night and I stood there motionless as he placed the gentlest of
kisses on my lips, asked if he could see me on Friday night, then
said goodnight.
This
dating stuff was OK.
We
saw each other as usual during the next few days, but when Friday
morning rolled around and Sonny came by to fix breakfast, there
was a decided twinkle in his eye as he cut up the eggs on KD's
plate. I had just started to enter the kitchen but quickly darted
out of sight so that I could eavesdrop. "Princess, Daddy's
not going to be here for dinner tonight but Grandpa's coming over
to play with you, is that OK? Daddy's got a date with a beautiful
lady I think you'd like. She's smarty and funny, and just between
you and me, I think the three of us would make the best family
ever." How much KD actually understood, I have no idea, -
she was only ten months old, but every time her father spoke with
her, she listened intently and seemed to hang on every word. The
man had a way of mesmerizing the ladies, no matter what age.
I
backed off into the living room a bit then coughed as I walked
into the kitchen, warning him of my arrival. We ate breakfast
as we chattered about our various plans for the day, of course
including KD in our conversation. She was starting to babble quite
a bit, but hasn't said anything distinguishable yet, unless you
believe it when Sonny announced that she said "Daddy make
it al dente, not mushy," a fact I highly doubt.
He
was running late for a meeting at the warehouse so I assured him
I was capable of getting the dishes into the dishwasher. Expressing
extreme doubt, he nevertheless smooched KD on the head, told her
he loved her, and then left without so much as a toodle-loo to
me. I was standing there staring at the back of the door when
it opened and the infamous dimples appeared.
"Almost
forgot. Mike's watching KD tonight. It's all set up. Date number
two, I'm taking you out for burgers and a movie. See ya at 7:30."
Date
number two. A second date. We were going out on a second date.
I mentally slapped down my giddiness. Why was I getting so - so
- happy over a date with a man with whom I had conceived a child?
I pondered the thought while getting KD ready to go and rambled
aloud all the way to Shrinkem and Suem. Damn! Sonny had me so
perplexed I was calling the firm by the name Cameron did. KD and
I arrived at work, I unbuckled her from her car seat and carried
her in. Cameron's door was open so I marched myself right in and
put KD on the floor.
"Cameron
it's not working, I mean it is working, but it's not because I
feel like an out of control 15 year old not a mature woman of
my age."
"Which
would be...?" grinned Cameron.
I
stuck out my tongue. "Twenty seven. Honestly, Cameron, I
have butterflies, all I do is think of him and the other morning
in court, I found myself drawing hearts with our initials on my
legal pad."
Cameron
let loose with a belly laugh as he got up and poured us each some
coffee.
"And
this is bad how?"
"Cam,
I'm acting like a kid with a schoolgirl crush. It's ridiculous.
Is asinine. It's...it's...it's downright embarrassing!"
"Welcome
to the human race, Alexis. We all feel that way when it comes
to dating - the more your date means to you, the more you feel
it. Does he/she like me as much as I like him/her? Will I make
a fool of myself? Will we kiss? Will we go out again? We all do
it, we all feel it, and we all act on it. It's normal. It's as
American as apple p...oh my God Alexis! Look at KD. She's standing!
Her
stand lasted all of about 1.2 seconds, just the amount of time
it took me to press the button on my cell phone and say "Sonny's
cell." In one ring he answered "Alexis."
"Sonny,
KD stood alone. No help. All by herself."
"You
at the office?"
"Mmm
hmm." I was concentrating on my daughter instead of what
he was saying.
"I'm
on my way."
Fifteen
minutes later, three grown adults were sitting on the floor with
a very perplexed baby in their midst. We'd stand her up only to
have her plop right down on her bottom. Cameron nodded his head
towards her the last time she plopped.
"Ever
wonder why they come with unfinished plumbing? That's why. They
need the extra padding those first few months until they have
steady legs. When Alex and Peter first started this they bounced
back and forth like they had some sort of trampoline in their
rumps. It's the best time..."
Sonny
looked at Cameron as KD crawled over to her Daddy's lap. "Once
they start standing, how long before they walk?"
"No
telling. That day or a couple of weeks later. It depends on the
determination of the child. There is no norm."
Sonny
looked up at me with a wistful look. "Would you mind if I
brought burgers and a movie over to your place tonight instead
of us going out? I don't want to miss her first steps."
How
could I refuse, because that's exactly what I had been thinking,
so that's how we came to be sitting on my sofa, sipping sodas,
eating burgers and watching "When Harry Met Sally."
KD of course, had conked out early without standing even once,
but Sonny and I had actually continued our date talk from the
other night instead of the usual 'all about the baby' conversations
we normally had. The movie ended, I sighed, then yawned. Sonny
stood up to go when in a sudden burst of smushiness from the movie
I blurted it out.
"Sonny
I'm afraid. I've killed every relationship I've ever been in because
I've been afraid of my own feelings. I played the jealous card
in college, the I'm too busy to commit card when I became an attorney,
and well, you know what I did to Ned and you. I'm scared Sonny,
really scared because I love you more than I've ever loved anyone
and I don't want to sabotage what we have."
Sonny
looked stunned for a moment before he pulled me into a gentle,
all encompassing hug. He rubbed my back in circles as he whispered
into my ear. "I won't let you push me away. Ever. Thank you
for telling me you're scared." He pulled away slightly and
looked deep into my eyes. "And thank you for telling me you
love me."
I
felt the feeling in his kiss long after he left.
The
flowers came the next day. Dozens and dozens of yellow lilies.
George the delivery guy just smiled as he came in with the first
batch. I sent my wife these the day after she told me she loved
me.
Sonny's
card was simple and sweet. "Did you really say that? I'm
walking on air with the happiness. I love you too."
part
10