The
Flower Series
by Sue
April
- White Camellias
We
got thru the snowstorm without losing electricity, but that snowstorm
was when I really began to lose my heart. Sonny spent a total
of four days with KD and I; four wonderful, magical days that
I knew signified a true beginning for the three of us as a family,
but I wasn't about to give in so easily. Honestly, had he not
been as tender and reserved as he was during that time, I might
have given in to my baser hormonal urges, but ever the gentleman,
he was true to his word and let me set the pace. No double entendres,
no hidden meanings, not one suggestive look made it to me during
the remaining time he was there. Other than the forehead kiss
in the kitchen and one on the cheek when he left, we never even
touched. When the roads were finally cleared and he went home,
I held KD for the longest time, seeing Sonny's smile in his daughter's
face, remembering the way he so openly worshiped her. It was easy
to see how I let him back into my heart and life so easily, but
I need to keep a clear head. My work was cut out for me.
The
March snows gradually melted into April's warmth, and the return
of the birds, green grass, and spring flowers. Much to KD's delight,
her bulky old snowsuit was abandoned for sweaters and the cutest
little sneakers you ever saw. Sonny continued to see us every
day unless he was out of town, which caused our very vocal daughter
to let her displeasure be known - Daddy was the ONLY person from
whom she considered breakfast should be received.
A
week or so after the big reveal in February, my cell phone rang
and the number displayed surprised me, even though it shouldn't
have. Mike Corbin, in a move typical of his and Sonny's relationship,
called me - not his son - to ask if the rumors were true. The
hitch in his voice when I told him yes, he had a granddaughter
-- well - what can I say? Within an hour he was at the apartment
staring at KD in wonder. He stayed the afternoon, telling me all
about Sonny as a baby, and all about Adela. After the first hour
or so he noticed the multitudes of flowers in the apartment and
started to laugh. "My son?" I nodded yes. Mike looked
approvingly. "For once he's getting it right."
He
called daily after that and made regular visits - my daughter
had the most loving grandpa she could ever want. Once he brought
a shoebox with him - pictures of Sonny as a baby and as a child.
Oh my, did KD look like her father; I knew the resemblance was
there but until I put his baby picture next to her sleeping form
in the crib I had no idea how much. Mike gushed over the pictures
of Sonny; it was obvious he had adored his little boy. Between
the pictures and the stories I had blackmail material for a lifetime.
Who knew the big bad crime lord wore short pants until he was
6? What would underworld figures do if they saw the picture of
two-year-old sonny in his mother's high heels and father's hat?
In diapers no less. And the cooking - it didn't start at the Cerullo's
- it started in his mother's kitchen with baked ham and black
beans.
Adela
was a stunning woman. Not too tall, but perfect skin and dark
black hair; in a word she was regal. I tried to get Mike to tell
me the story about how they met but he kept putting me off and
I could see that he truly regretted his life at that time - not
Adela and Sonny, but the drinking and gambling - and had spent
the last 30 -35 years punishing himself for it. Those two had
to make amends and I was hoping KD would be the catalyst. Mike
I knew was willing. Sonny was and always had been the problem.
I asked Mike if he would leave the pictures with me for a couple
of days so I could take my time looking at them. He agreed, and
my plan hatched.
The
next day when Sonny came over to cook breakfast, on the refrigerator
there was a picture of Adela holding Sonny in front of the church
on his christening day. Sonny didn't notice until he went for
the eggs. He stopped and stared, mouth agape. Gingerly putting
his forefinger on the photo, he touched his mothers face and barely
whispered "Mamma." When he turned to look at me I told
him Mike had brought some photos over so that I could see KD's
grandma and her daddy as a little boy.
"Mike
brought this?"
I
nodded. He took the photo off the refrigerator and sat down, never
breaking his gaze. While he was lost in memories, I took the box
off the counter and put it on the table, quietly saying, "There's
more."
Sonny,
slowly sliding the shoebox to a position in front of him and removing
the cover, was greeted by old photos, a father's day card, and
other assorted mementos from Mike's long ago life. Mementos that
I could see both shocked and pleased Sonny. Ever since his father
had left, Sonny had felt that Mike had abandoned his family because
he didn't care about them and now suddenly he was looking at proof
positive of Mike's love and anguish. I left him alone to go thru
the contents.
Busying
myself with some paperwork for a client, I lost track of time
until I heard KD yowl and I remembered that she was still in the
kitchen and had not yet had breakfast. By the time I got out to
the kitchen Sonny was soothing her. I stood in the doorway unnoticed
as one by one he showed her the pictures.
"See
your abuelas? This one Sweetie, is your Great Great Grandma Rosa,
Great Grandma Sophia, your Grandma Adela, and the little baby
is your daddy. And this one is your Grandpa Mike and your daddy.
See this card? I gave that to your Grandpa Mike and your Grandma
Adela helped me write my name because I didn't know how to write
yet. I put this little plastic cowboy in the card because I wanted
to give him a present and we used to play with my cowboy and Indians
a lot."
My
eyes misted over as Sonny continued talking to his daughter in
Spanish. I swiped at the tears with my fingers and knocked on
the doorframe. "Is this a private party or can anyone join
in?"
Sonny
looked up at me as he bounced KD on his knee. "He cared about
us. He kept all of this..." He choked up and couldn't go
on. I went over and crouched at the table, pretending to play
with KD, but really to be in close contact with a man who looked
like he needed a gentle touch.
"He
did, Sonny. He does. He loved you and your mother so much, but
he also knew how much he was hurting the two of you. He couldn't
control his addictions, even for the love of his wife and child,
so he left to spare you even further pain. He thought he was protecting
the two of you. Sonny, the guilt he's carried around for all these
years...it's just phenomenal. He hit bottom so many times, and
each time it proved that what he did was the right thing. When
he heard Adela remarried, he thought the two of you were in good
hands and went away for good. The pain he felt in leaving you
wasn't even close to the agony he felt when he found out what
happened to your mother and the choices you had been driven to
make. He doesn't want forgiveness, Sonny. He said he doesn't deserve
to be forgiven, but he wants to be part of KD's life, and he'd
like to be part of yours also. He never stopped loving you, Sonny.
He just wanted better for you than what he was able to give."
I
took KD and stood up. Sonny fingered the items in the shoebox
for a long moment, and then stood up. "I need to be alone.
Can I take these?"
I
nodded my assent and in a moment he was gone, leaving KD and I
alone and a little sad. I hadn't said many prayers in my life,
but I said one then.
That
all happened a month before the snowstorm, and that's when I began
to see a change in Sonny. I think he finally connected what Mike
did to fatherhood; not the best of fathering jobs, mind you, but
I think he began to see the sacrifices Mike made for the love
of his family. Slowly, Sonny started making overtures to Mike
-- inviting him for dinner, calling to let him know KD rolled
over - nothing big, but definitely he was trying. They argued
and quarreled, but this time with Sonny knowing that his father
had truly loved him. It wasn't easy and no miracle cure happened
for their relationship, but it steadily began to improve, step-by-step,
day-by-day. When we were stuck in the apartment during the snowstorm
he called Mike several times a day to brag about things KD was
doing, and Mike told me on the sly that once Sonny even called
him Dad.
Sonny
meanwhile threw himself into fatherhood to the point of bugging
the pediatrician even more than I had bugged the obstetrician.
When the doctor told us that KD could start on solids at anytime,
Daddy went into overdrive. No commercially prepared baby food
for his daughter. No sir. He purchased three mini food processors
-- one for vegetables, one for fruits, and one for meats. The
doctor said to start her on veggies because if she tasted fruit
first, she'd never moved on to veggies, so Sonny planned a big
to-do in honor of the occasion. Fortunately it was his to-do and
not mine, so I let him plan and prepare, knowing full well that
he'd go overboard and there was nothing I could do or say to stop
it. He was a Daddy and he was proud.
The
morning of the big event (KD's five month birthday) Mike came
over to play with her as had been his habit -- every Saturday
morning at 10, Grandpa Mike came bearing funny noises, belly blowings,
and stories about her daddy as a little boy. That day, no sooner
had the door closed when someone was knocking on it. He grinned
as he took KD from my arms and told me I better get it - it was
for me. I shot him a glance and opened the door to my friendly
neighborhood florist. I heaved a large sigh, smiled, stepped aside,
and let him and his co-workers in with vase after vase of beautiful
hydrangeas of every size and color imaginable. This time as George
(we were now on a first name basis) left, he handed me an envelope,
which I opened without even closing the door.
A
simple note; You must think I'm crazy to be making so much of
our daughter's first taste of adult food, but you've been quiet
and let me make a fool of myself. If you haven't guessed, hydrangeas
mean 'thank you for understanding.'
I
didn't know whether to be insulted or hurt. I expected romance
and got his sincere thanks? Mike must have seen me starting to
seethe because he handed KD back to me and started getting the
vases moved to better locations, as he talked non-stop. "Now,
Alexis. I know you're probably disappointed it seems so impersonal,
but remember Michael has the best of intentions. He really thought
you were taking this feeding insanity very well, and wanted to
let you know how much he appreciated your letting him go overboard
in loving his daughter."
I
was furious and disappointed, so I shot Mike a glance that shut
him up. "The content of any note Sonny gives me is of no
personal interest to me. We share a daughter. End of story. There
is nothing else going on between us, and that suits us both just
fine."
Mike
smiled as he went to the front door. "Keep telling yourself
that Alexis, Maybe one day you'll convince yourself - just not
while my son has anything to say about it. I think I'll get out
of your hair go on over there and see if he needs any help setting
up. See you two later."
Eventually
I calmed down, but was determined to be (if you'll pardon the
expression) Ms Ice Princess at Sonny's that afternoon. My determination
lasted for all of five minutes before we got caught into the old
comfortable soft shoe dance and banter that made me grow to love
him in the first place. Yes, I said love him. I was finally admitting
it to myself - in secret of course - but he could tell. I just
ignored it and ignored him not ignoring it. Mike simply sat on
the couch and laughed at us.
Oh,
yeah - KD's first real meal? Pureed squash. I cringed and made
a face, which I'm sure, was reminiscent of a three-year-old facing
Brussels sprouts for the first time, so Sonny shoved a spoonful
into my mouth. They were delicious. KD thought so too because
she looked surprised at the spoon going into her mouth then yelled
for another bite; and another, and another, and another. Sonny
meanwhile was fully in his element - pleasing the palate of a
beautiful female. We got quite a few pictures for KD's baby book,
including one at the moment she decided she was full and used
her new bubble blowing technique to spit the squash out onto her
father. Unfortunately, that brought out the child in Sonny and
he decided to teach his daughter how to smash her hand into a
pile of goo on the high chair tray, sending flecks of squash everywhere,
which delighted my baby to no end. The evening ended on an up
note when he chastely kidded me good night when I left -- chastely,
but with meaning, chastely, but with feeling.
Four
days later I was feeding KD more squash for lunch (making sure
I kept the bowl off the tray) when a knock came at the door. It
was a Wednesday and I wasn't expecting Mike, or Sonny, so I looked
thru the peephole. It was George. Puzzled, I opened the door and
came face to face with the most stunning bunch of white camellias
I have ever seen. He put them on the coffee table and closed the
door behind him as he left. I pulled out the card.
Alexis,
Today is the anniversary of the day that changed my life. The
anniversary of the day that has given me hope, joy, and a sense
of wonder I never knew before. One year ago today you and I, amid
emotions we have yet to fathom the depths of, conceived a new
life. Our daughter. Our beautiful, precious, miraculous daughter.
As I play with her, look into her eyes, goad her into showing
those marvelous dimples and that incredible toothless grin, I
think of many things but two words come to mind. They're the same
words that come to mind when I think of you, and of all the happiness
and fun you're brought back into my life. I fell for you a long
time ago Alexis, but every day I find myself falling all over
again, deeper and deeper. I won't say the words because I know
neither one of us are completely ready yet, but I want you to
know that like the meaning of white camellias, like our daughter
- you're adorable.
Damn
that man!
Damn
my heart!
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